I think that when you have a connection with someone it never really goes away, you know? You snap back to being important to each other because you still are.
Some women think Freedom is walking around half naked, going to club/pub and dating guys one after the other without marriage. Don’t tell me to take off my hijab, take off my modest clothing and imitate your way of dressing, don’t tell me that staying at home is boring and going to the club/pub is fun, don’t tell me to disbelieve in marriage and keep dating. This is not Freedom. Freedom is a CHOICE. I choose to free myself from the chains of society and obey my Lord whom we all have to return to. Stay strong my sisters.
I am :)
BE AT THE DOOR OF SHUKUR
"Right now when we are sitting here there are people laying down in their beds in the hospitals like wood. They cannot even turn around, air has to be pumped inside of them and they are going through pain just to take that air in and to give that air out. And that life is continuing to so many of them for years.
How much should we be thankful?
So don’t be at the door of complaining. Be at the door of shukr. If we are standing at the door of shukr then our Lord looks at us.
He may put us through different tests in the world. We are weak servants. We may cry, yes. We may find areas alone and we may cry with our Lord saying, “Oh my Lord, I am a weak servant. You are giving this pain to me. I cannot carry it but I am still thanking You. You have the power to change it.” Then you may see that it may change instantly”
-Sahibul Seyf Sheykh Abdul Kerim Effendi (Qs)
Saving Face (2012), acid attacks on women in Pakistan
Meanwhile, in America, feminists are complaining about how dress codes are oppressive.
You idiots have never experienced oppression, and pray you never do, because this is what it looks like.
As a South Asian American feminist, let me remind everyone that oppression is not a competition.
Just because we fight one type of sexism doesn’t mean we don’t care about other instances of sexism that don’t affect us directly in our day to day lives.
My heart goes out to this woman and the hundreds of other victims like her. I want to educate people about these kinds of incidents. I support organizations that help women like this.
You may think that dress code issues are trivial, but they are related to a larger issue of women’s bodily autonomy, which affects women’s health and safety.
So please, let’s try to bring awareness and bring about change instead of insulting entire groups of people because they are facing issues that are less scary than the one presented.
“oppression is not a competition”
thank you so much for this wording
When you are in financial need, rise early in the day, for the subsistence (rizq) is distributed before sunrise. And Allah, the Most High, has blessed this Ummah in its early hours; and gives away alms in the early hour; because adversities do not follow the alms.
Hehehe amiin…except i believe tht i’ve met him :D in sha Allah its him
My dearest future husband,
My expectations are not of a princess. I do not need all the riches of the world. All I ask is that you are rich with knowledge. Please do not feel threatened by labels and certificates. They mean so much less than the knowledge of Islam I pray you possess. I pray that you’ll be my other half who will help me answer our children’s’ questions when I have no idea what to say. I pray you be there to finish my sentences and teach me where I am lacking, for I know I am.
I do not expect you to be as beautiful as Prophet Yusuf (‘Aalayhi Salam), I will be grateful enough you becoming the light of my eyes. If we were meant for each other, if I am the lucky girl Allah created for you, then I’m sure Allah will bring our hearts together and make us fall in love when we finally meet. How can I expect someone handsome and good looking, when I am but an awkward and clumsy girl.
A Muslimah’s letter written for her future husband, her future partner and the future father to her children. Even though I have yet to meet him, I pray that you are always in the best of health, under Allah’s protection and barakah, no matter where you are. Although there is no way to determine how and where we will meet, my prayers are always with you, so that one day we will find each other under the best of circumstances.
May Allah ease.
And for others too..